Let’s face it - teenagers aren’t always thrilled about family photos. Maybe it’s the thought of standing still for too long, smiling on command, or wearing something that doesn’t quite scream “cool.” But as a photographer who’s worked with countless families (and plenty of teens), and having been a “naughty teenager” myself, I can promise you this: it’s always worth it.
Those fleeting teenage years, full of personality and individuality, are moments you’ll want to look back on. And, believe it or not, your teens will too - maybe not today, but definitely down the road when they’re feeling nostalgic.
So, how do we make the process as seamless and enjoyable as possible? Here’s everything you need to know about booking in a family shoot when you have teenagers.
Don’t worry - I’ve seen the eye rolls.
If you’re already dreading the pre-shoot resistance, don’t worry - I’ve got you. I’ve worked with all kinds of teens, from those who love the camera to those who’d rather be anywhere else. I’m used to the occasional eye roll or grumble, and I know how to keep things fun and low-pressure. My goal is to make everyone feel comfortable and relaxed, and sometimes that means cracking a few jokes or letting your teen take the lead for a bit.
Rest assured, I’ve got this.
A Handy Guide for Teens: Outfits & Prep Tips
To help your teen feel more confident and comfortable, share these tips with them:
Outfits: Encourage them to wear something they feel good in and that reflects their personal style. Layers like jackets or cardigans can add versatility, meaning we can mix things up for a few photosand accessories (hats, necklaces, etc.) can make the photos feel more “them.”
Comfort is key: Make sure their outfit is something they can move around in. No one wants to feel restricted during a shoot. In the same vein, layers are always a good idea in Wellington, in case things get a little chilly.
Express yourself: You might want to opt for a more timeless style - but honestly, nothing beats the iconic outfits of the era (how good is it looking back on photos from the 80s and 90s and admiring your outfits?). If they don’t want to play ball with your suggested outfits - just let them go for it. It might not be perfectly coordinated, but it’ll be so fun to look back on and see their personalities shine through (and hey, fashion goes around in circles - the current 90s revival is strong at the moment!)
Prepping for the shoot
Make the session feel like a collaborative effort. Let your teen have a say in things like the location or even the style of the shoot. Whether they choose a local park, an urban spot, or even your backyard, giving them ownership can help them feel more invested. I’m always happy to chuck through some suggestions to get you started in choosing a location.
Remind them that the session isn’t just about posed family shots - it’s also an opportunity to capture their individuality. We can take some solo photos, sibling moments, or candid shots that showcase their personality.
Put it all into perspective
Teenagers might not see the value in family photos right now, but one day they will. There’s something magical about looking back on snapshots from your teenage years - the awkward phases, the cool outfits you swore by, the family dynamics at that time.
To get them hyped up, I reckon it’s time to break out the old photo albums and share a few photos of yourself as a teen. Show them the fashion trends you loved, the hairstyles you rocked, and the memories attached to those photos. It’s a great way to connect and show them the importance of capturing these moments now. Plus - you’ll all have a good laugh.
Outfit coordination for the whole family
When it comes to family outfits, aim for cohesion without being too matchy-matchy. Stick to a complementary colour palette and avoid large logos or clashing patterns.
Here are a few quick tips:
Mum/Dad: Neutral tones or soft textures work beautifully and won’t overshadow the photos.
Siblings: Outfits that reflect individual styles but stick to the colour palette.
Teens: If they’re being tricky, let them lead with their outfit choice, then build the rest of the family’s looks around it.
Making the Most of Your Session
During the shoot, we’ll make time for a mix of group and individual photos:
Family portraits: Everyone together, relaxed and natural.
Sibling moments: Whether they’re laughing, chatting, or just standing side by side, these photos always hold a special charm. Also - GREAT for presents for the grandparents.
Individual shots: Portraits of each person in your whanau.
Years from now, you’ll be so glad you made the effort to capture this time in your lives. And so will your teen - even if they don’t admit it right away.
So - let’s do this! Let’s capture the beauty, the quirks, and the connections that make your family uniquely yours. I promise to handle the eye rolls with ease and create images that everyone (yes, even your teen) will love.
Ready to book? Get in touch today - and in the meantime, check out a few recent family photoshoots with teenagers involved
